Coaching is for you if you are:

  • Stuck in a holding pattern of an unhappy marriage or partnership as you continue to settle and buffer instead of making a decision to take the first step to move forward in your chosen direction

  • Paralyzed by fear and uncertainty and have no idea how to begin the process

  • Swimming in shame of what others might think

  • Spinning in emotions and drama while attempting to make enormous decisions that will affect the rest of your life 

  • Feeling an intense lack of control

  • Overwhelmed by financial considerations, custody battles, attorneys, mediators, courts, all while trying to show up positively for your children

  • Struggling to let go of the future you thought you had – the loving spouse, happy family, vacations and holidays spent together, the family home and lifestyle

  • Having trouble remembering who you are after years of putting your partner and children first 

  • Absolutely terrified of the life you might have after divorce, how your children may be affected and whether or not you will find love again

The list goes on.

How do I know? I was you.

I experienced all those things and more having gone through divorce – twice.

The first time, I was in my mid-twenties and found myself where I never thought I’d be – considering divorce. My biggest obstacle was shame. It became very clear I had many negative thoughts about divorced people. What I learned by going through it myself was a profound sense of empathy. To this day I’m reminded that I’m in no position to judge others having not lived their lives. 

My second divorce was a very different experience – I now had a young son, my career as a designer had been put on hold, and as a full-time mom I was completely dependent upon my husband financially. It took me some time to realize I was in an unhealthy relationship and even more time to call it quits. After years of therapy, mediation, attorneys and courts it was finally over. The process was long and painful. What I learned this time around was:

I can do hard things. And so can you. 

I’m here to help you every step of the way. You don’t have to do this alone.